Requesting big time assistance with Session I recently facilitated~

  • Requesting big time assistance with Session I recently facilitated~

    Posted by Alexandra Roberts on 2018-05-24 at 2:00 PM

    Greetings all~ I had a 3.5 hour BQH session yesterday with a new male client who is an engineer.

    I sent him days before session Candace’s preparing for your BQH session info with all her valuable links and Info.

    I followed the BQH protocol and my training. Using Water Alchemy process, Heart Mind Coherence and Candace’s BQH Induction script. Used Prayer a lot and every tool I could think of. All throughout Session, client kept telling me I am still here, I am in my conscious mind.
    He asked me to do BQH Induction process 3 times throughout the session and said he felt nothing. I suggested he “make it up” and he seemed resistant to that.
    I for my part stayed consistently loving and calm and reassured him, it was all good.
    At several points near the end he begged me to help him get to his High Self. I went through all my BQHT scripts even the SC Dialogue script and the Negative Energy Release scrip. He says he saw and felt nothing.

    Requesting assisting Practitioners, where did I go wrong? How better could I have better helped him? When a client “pleads” with you to help them get in touch with their own Higher Self, what is there to do?

    I was at a loss and just kept extending loving to him. We did get to his questions at the end and I suggested in loving, we call forward his HS and he answer as best he could and lets assume’ it was his HS. He went along as he wanted answers to his questions.

    The session was recorded and I played it back for myself last night for greater learning’s. ANY help, assistance you can provide, will be so lovingly appreciated. In Loving, Alexandra

    Alexandra Roberts replied 6 years, 6 months ago 5 Members · 9 Replies
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  • Lilah Moriarty

    Lilah Moriarty

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 2:30 PM

    It sounds to me like you did things right. The only suggestion I would have is, I use guided imagery before I start each session. Candace has a great one where you picture your front door, what it looks like, and what the handle feels like…etc. I really like this one. It helps the client understand HOW the images will come to them. I feel like it better prepares them for understanding that you are not asleep when hypnotized but using your imagination.
    That being said, I have had clients that did not reach their HS either. It may be due to resistance or misguided expectations. I wouldn’t be hard on yourself. It sounds like you did a wonderful job coping with a challenging situation.

  • Alexandra Roberts

    Alexandra Roberts

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 2:36 PM

    Thank you so much Lilah~ I just would so love to know how to assist someone who wants to reach their HS. With the BQH inductions, he kept asking me why are we doing this? the induction process? asked me if I had another way to hypnotize him? Thank you again for your encouragement. Yeah, my feathers are deflated with my head bowed~ Love, Alexandra

  • Sylvia Landa (formerly Molera)

    Sylvia Landa (formerly Molera)

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 2:48 PM

    @Alexandra_Roberts The message I got halfway thru reading your post was CAFFEINE. When I did my very first session that message came through that caffeine(in any form soda, coffee, 5 hour energy shots, chocolate), sugar, drugs: marijuana, medications that alter your nerves (people tend to think if they drink something to “relax” them they will have a better “connection” actually the OPPOSITE is true!), also alcohol all are blocks to connecting. Even though I give every client my schpiel of no partaking in these I have come across a few who did it anyway and those were the ones who could not “connect”. Still in 1 other session they had ALOT of negative beliefs blocking them from connecting because they had religious programming or fear of what they would be told. Kinda like you wanna know the truth but don’t wanna know cuz you already know but you’re afraid of having to face the music and taking action in real life (quitting that crappy job, leaving that jerk you’re with, etc…). I hope this helps.

  • Christine Shanesy-Kooper

    Christine Shanesy-Kooper

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 2:54 PM

    One thing that stood out for me was his reluctance to make it up….to use his imagination. This is the gateway to the subconcious – to his Higher Self so really, what he did was insist on reaching his HS on his terms, not theirs. I remember a story Candace told – in one of her blogs as well I believe – about she and other people doing mock sessions where they fully intended on pure make believe …. just to realize after the fact that all of that pretending turned into real past life stories. By using their imagination, they opened the gateway – once opened, the HS can then take over and start to do their thing. You and others can only do your best – the real work lies with the client only. I would send him some homework for a couple weeks and invite him back for a half priced or even free session. I find I do these more often than not because too often, the first session ends up being the clients chance to get a feel for what to expect. Have him do a lot of guided meditations and even perhaps a guessing game with his intuition so he can get used to saying the first thing that comes to mind. As soon as I turn this corner, the first thing I’ll see is ….. I hear a bird, it’s a ….. etc etc. For anyone doing this, they will inevitablly improve their relationship with their intuition and for QHHT, get more accustom to saying what comes to mind. We’ve all been trained in life to not do this so it’s an obsticle to look at.

  • Alexandra Roberts

    Alexandra Roberts

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 7:32 PM

    Thank you all, I so appreciate all these suggestions. The client does drink wine occasionally and I suggested to them not to drink the night before.

    Do any of you know of any video’s that the client might view to assist him in getting in touch with his HS? I am loving the suggestion of giving him 2 weeks and offering the next BQH session for free.
    Such a learning curve…I am so grateful for all of you and this experience. Love, Alexandra

  • William Schmitt

    William Schmitt

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 8:46 PM
    Alexandra; You can bypass all of these complications and allow your client to dialogue directly with his own HS by utilizing a surrogate.Obtain the assistance of someone you have easily induced previously into trance and access their HS. Then ask to speak to the HS of your client. Your client should be at your side and can then dialogue directly with his own HS.
    Ideally, your surrogate should be someone willing to work with you whenever needed and will have a keyword installed to expedite the induction process.
    Respectfully
    William
  • Alexandra Roberts

    Alexandra Roberts

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 9:23 PM

    Thank you William, that sounds amazing~! I have not heard of this before. Was this a Dolores Canon concept/suggestion? Blessings, Alexandra

  • William Schmitt

    William Schmitt

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 10:22 PM
    Dear Alexandra;
    Little to nothing you will find under the heading of BQH would have been endorsed by DC while she was incarnate. However, from her now elevated perspective, she has encouraged us, her legacy, to expand upon her techniques and to pursue the truth as we encounter it.
    Respectfully
    William
  • Alexandra Roberts

    Alexandra Roberts

    Member
    2018-05-24 at 10:43 PM

    Lovely~ Thank you William. I would love to learn more about surrogates. I so appreciate the wisdom of this forum. I have not encountered a more enlightened group of beings…<3

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