Reposting a session story- Zero Nada Nothing Zilch
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Reposting a session story- Zero Nada Nothing Zilch
The following session was done by me in Texas January 2013 and is a reposting from another category on this Forum. I think of this session often and for a number of important reasons. I will list those reasons in a comment underneath. But the main thing to understand is that this session paved the way for me to understand that being flexible – and creative in a quantum healing session is incredibly important. So basically- this was a BQH session.
I had a woman last week come to me for a session. She was an older woman of 81.
She said that QHHT was her last hope.
She actually had few physical complaints for her age, pain from a couple of injuries, but nothing terminal, no serious disease. Her biggest problems were emotional. She had a most charming but deeply manipulative and controlling husband who abused her and also abused and molested their (now 60yr old) daughter throughout her childhood. This woman still lived with him, and had so from the tender age of 18.
She felt utterly trapped and defeated and DONE with her life.
We spent about 3 hours in the interview and prep phase of our session. She was so closed up and I know that I truly pushed the (time) limit of her ability to ready herself for the hypnosis part of the session.
She was as ready as she was ever going to be and got on the bed and we started. She saw a simple beautiful place. A forest and stream.
When it was time to go to the cloud she shut down completely. She just laid there. She wouldn’t even ANSWER me about seeing the cloud or not seeing the cloud or anything at all. I tried a couple of other ways to get her to let go, yes, even deepeners, and I could tell, she wasn’t going to get on any cloud, magic carpet, elevator or anything at all.
I sat for a few minutes and just asked my own SC what to do.
I quietly asked her if she just wanted to lie there quietly while I spoke to her.
She sighed deeply- and for the first time began to relax.
I knew, I just KNEW this woman wasn’t going to speak another word in the session nor make a move on her own nor access her imagination or right brain in any way. She was simply incapable.
So I spent the next 50 minutes or so describing the most beautiful place in the world that I could imagine for her. I took my time. I closed my own eyes and went there with her and described it all in beautiful detail.
I described a place where she could have all the love and healing and peace she deserved and craved. She let go with my voice and went deeper and deeper and tears flowed here and there. When I finished I quietly asked for the SC. No response. I waited and tried a few different things to get responses, in ANY way. To get her to say ANYTHING, but her lips remained tightly and sternly closed.
She seemed a bit more relaxed upon awakening but that was about it.
I told her I would record the “healing journey” for her so she could replay it and hopefully it would help manifest the peace and happiness and health she was seeking.
I can only hope that some door was cracked, some healing offered either during the session or perhaps later.
I share this story for all of you who might have experienced something similar. Not truly to ask anyone else, what they might have tried, what technique or script or whatever…just to share that sometimes this is going to happen. You as a Practitioner can only do what you can do. You cannot do anything FOR the client. I can only hope that on another level, perhaps our mutual SCs came together to work and uplift each other, that perhaps my healing journey was useful or a repetition of it would be useful in the future for her.
I did my best. Its all any of us can do.
Much love to all,
Candace(more information: More news came through from this client at a later date). She is actually doing it, she is going through with this…she is leaving her husband and starting a “new life”, at age 81…despite everything that will take….which will be considerable, she is actually going through with it. Her husband is so strong, so controlling, I thought he might be able to thwart her plan, or talk her out of it… but she has held her position and is headed out on her own.
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1. This session brought home the understanding of who was making an appointment for whom and why. The husband wanted his wife “fixed” and was sending her to me for that reason. He got way more than he bargained for!
2. This session showed me that it was the connection/care to the client that was paramount. There was no brilliant cosmic information, no compelling past life story, no reported moments of inspiration or understanding- at least not outwardly.
3. This session had me purchase liability insurance. The husband was very displeased with me- and made his displeasure known- it was uncomfortable to know this, especially since he was so charming and manipulative.
4. This session was a gift in trusting myself. I had initially reported the session as one where (it seemed) that there was little to no apparent shift or result, and could be considered a failure and yet, both the mother and the daughter, disconnected from this man – moved out of his home and his life. And he had controlled their lives for decades!
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Thank you for sharing it agan, @Candace_CrawGoldman !
Lessons learnt.
Thank you.Love
Karuna -
Wow amazing! Thank you for sharing! ?
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Wonderful Candace!
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I wonder if you described Afterlife for her and motivated her to peacefully cross over… People who are stuck in ‘unsolvable” situations often just die from some quick illness or accident, because they are too old or too involved to change anything, but they can’t bear it any longer, so they just ‘check out”. I have read a lot of stories like that…And place where you can get ‘all the love you want” is not in physical reality…
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Interesting idea Irina… and I have no idea if she is still alive but my sense is that she is…because for her, she only ever began to live a life of her own choice after our session.
What I did learn and know for sure was that at the age of 81 she moved out of her very large estate style home and into a small apartment- probably something she could afford with just her social security allowance, but that is just a guess. Her husband was so clever and manipulative…he probably threatened her with being destitute if she tried to leave him.
All she wanted was to be released from living with the man she had married. I have no idea if they divorced or whatever, all I do know is that she moved out and for the first time in her entire life she was not being abused or controlled by a man (either her father or her husband) her every waking hour.
She was/is finally free.
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Great session, Candace ! I believe that our clients get exactly what is appropriate for them at the time. In similar sessions to this one, I have also used my voice to ‘guide’ the ‘stuck’ client to their healing. I think we need to be open when things don’t go according to the ‘script’, and to use our intuition to guide us.
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