[Kelly Hart]

i have a lesson for anyone who needs to learn from my mistakes. I know it was premature and I used the dialogue that I had known from my own QHHT sessions. I had a close friend who was really struggling. i said I would love to practice and hypnotize her. She came over yesterday and I was not prepared but she ask me to hypnotize her so I did. So my mistakes or obstacles that I confronted I would like to share.
#! She never went into a past life, we had set the intention she would be led to the doors that would answer her questions. (why she is so stuck basically) Each door she opened was a dead relative. Which she has many since all her siblings except one has passed. So my first obstacle I was not expecting were a really prepared dialogue for them. Second she was crying so hard and it was so emotional as she was greeted and spoke to them I had a very hard time holding my own composure.( I was very choked up!)
#2 I did not tape it since I was not prepared and I thought oh I will remember or she will…haha no! There was significant facts given! (I was focused on curiosity if it had even worked) So when she began talking to her murdered brother and yelling out a name over and over I did not write it down. I assumed this was something she already knew. I thought terribly wrong. She had no idea and we will have to go back to talk to her brother again because she really wants the name of the murderer.
#3 The fact that not only is she talking to me but at times the ones she was talking to began talking to me. Calling me by name it was very strange. It was difficult to keep up with who was talking to who at times….
#4 She began having a life review. I would say her session was living the Scrooge movie out in an hour with what she was experiencing. I did know to move her out of certain situations and she also ask to leave certain experiences. It was powerful because I could understand from her questions what was being shown was extremely significant to her questions.
#5 She was visited by an old bf from hs. He was telling her not to kill herself that he had done it twenty years ago. He began telling her lots of things about herself. (when she woke she was very emotional when I told her about this visit because she had no idea he was dead much less killed himself.) He also told her that he was with her through many of her darkest times.(try not crying through stuff like that…ugh)
#6 So just to wrap things up I will say that two of her siblings told her that she needed to become light by stopping holding onto pain, grudges and self loathing! They told her not to kill herself although she had been thinking about it (which I was unaware of her suicidal tendencies until then) Her siblings told her that everything is about to change and this is not when she would want to die. They said there was about to be a huge change. One brother stood against a wall so bright she said that he glowed beautiful light. She said that he was singing the big bang theme song and said were about to have a huge bang! He said it is coming very soon but would not give more but he said it is going to change everything. Her sister said the same thing in different words but told her that these changes will happen for everyone and it is coming soon. That is also when the sister said to me, “no Kelly it is not what you think we will all be here only the earth will be new!” She said that the earth will be the same only new several times. Her mother gave her a visual when prompted and it was beautiful colors and forest and animals and she kept saying it is so beautiful. I also asked if they would be reunited at this change and they said yes we will be together again.
So anyhow for anyone who wants to learn from my mistakes. Always be prepared with tape recorder or video. Always believe they are in deep meditated state and be prepared for anything with your questions because obviously anything can happen not just past lives in a regression.

[Candace Craw-Goldman]

Hi Kelly

I can’t fully respond to your post just this second but wanted you to know I created a new Discussion out of it so it will be easier found and referenced by others in the future. It is now in the BQH Discussions category and not in the class content category.

And, thanks for being brave in sharing your experience, more later!

Candace

[Kelly Hart]

Thanks I was not sure where to say it but definitely am excited for your feedback!

[Irina Nola]

The only mistake I see here is not recording the session, as it turned out your friend is fully somnambulistic…Very powerful session, I am sure it helped her, plus it seems that she has mediumistic abilities and can easily talk to the dead….She might benefit from taking Pamela Aaralyn’s class on mediumship, it is on her Facebook page, it only cost monthly membership 33$.

[Kelly Hart]

Yes she has lots of gifts and she is American Indian along with the other members of her family. So there was definitely some information coming from that perspective of connection. It was great session and am so disappointed in myself for not taping it!

[Connie Rutledge]

What a wonderful session! No need to feel like you made a mistake. Sounds like the information was exactly what needed to be heard, felt and experienced. Thank you for sharing! Yes…recording each session is important!

[Christine Shanesy-Kooper]

Wow! Definitely a powerful session – amazing! I think theirs something to be said for an “on the fly” session – their was no overthinking things which is always good. If you do a 2nd session, I’m sure it’ll be just as powerful, if not more 🙂

[Candace Craw-Goldman]

So Kelly

It sounds like you just winged it from what you knew, and you experimented. But you were not very confident nor did you feel very prepared.

That will come with time and practice.

And for where you are in your understanding, you had a pretty amazing session, as others have stated above. We are all in different places of learning…

Did you have a note pad? Take notes? That is one suggestion.
Past lives only happen in about 1/3 to maybe 1/2 of my sessions.
Learning how to move the client will come with future instruction of BQH. We really haven’t done ANY of that yet!
Definitely attend the Beginners group on asking questions coming up next week.
Don’t minimize the discussion of suicidal tendencies, this is important. Follow up with her on that.

This work is not for the weak of heart or the timid. A “standard” protocol and notebook will be created to which you can refer DURING your sessions when you feel stuck or unsure of what to do next.

We haven’t even begun ANY of that either as all webinars and classes have focused upon foundational thinking and concepts.

There has been NO suggested procedure introduced yet, but that is coming up.

In my own training I found foundational concepts severely lacking… and I was just given the procedure from day one. I decided to instruct BQH differently, by speaking of foundational concerns FIRST to those with no experience in this field.

Tomorrow’s webinar (Focus on Hypnosis) will CONTINUE that discussion.

Procedural suggestions/protocol is coming soon.

Thanks

Love,
Candace

[Kelly Hart]

I am excited for all the things we are learning. She wants to do more so I’m lucky I have a guinnea pig I guess. That was all worthwhile information that you just shared. Thanks! I will try do the class tomorrow live since the time is better for me.