[candace durand]

Remember we never die, we experience all things, So was this an experience she wanted or the child? If not then, ask what was learned in this experience? If it was lost then go with that, if it was learning patience then go with that, was it a wake up call to love then go with that. You have to ask. take them to a place where it is viewed as a movie and you ask what happen next. The movie can start and stop in any part, and it can be discussed. Remember when they take the last breath in that life they can see the deceased again in the after life or the in-between life. If there was love connection it will always be there and you can have compassion to tell them that it was a lesson in love or what ever they came to learn. I had a client that the death of a child taught them compassion, love and other things of the importance of family. Explore others stories of love and lost and take that experiences of others and tell the client a story, a parable, it will heal on many different levels of this person life. Many saints told parables to the masses and all leaned on their level of learning. Find the stories in the bibles, or the magazines and use it often for this very reason. Milton Erickson a know hypnosis expert told stories on how one can heal, Look him up. As you get more stories to tell you will be the next great
story teller. Maybe you have a story that will help a grieving Mom. just thoughts from me.

[Mia Bjork]

Thank you @Candy_Durand, your thoughts truly help. Now I know what to try out in my next practice session. I have heard of Erickson in my hypnosis therapy course and will look him up for sure. Much love!

[Tara Moore]

Thank you both, as that was very helpful… and a great reminder to dig into who’s trauma was it, the person or the other involved. Thank you both!! <3 <3

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In the CTT method, the traumas are the gold that leads to great clearing. We actually most times aim for the key traumas so we can tap them away. When we do, they are usually quick life transformations!
Your clients could be introduced to the CTT or other tapping before the session and when trauma comes up, just tap. Here’s a fairly quick example. 8 mins. overview and then 18 min full session.

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[Heather Holm]

Forgiveness is another component. Can she forgive herself? Introspective Hypnosis teaches role play and forgiveness processes that might be helpful. If you can enable her to have a conversation with the child and the child (the client can lend their voice to the other person so the other point of view can be learned) can speak back, more can be learned with forgiveness all round – for self and other.

[Irina Nola]

I am not sure how it is supposed to be done in BQH, but in QHHT you can ask Higher Self to clear all past life trauma. In past life regression sessions, I take all clients to Healing Places in the Afterlife after traumatic past lives, connect to streaming energy there and ask for clearing of all past life negative carryovers from cellular memory and all subtle bodies, and tell me when they feel it is done (they know, does not take long) . If their Healing Place is laying on the ground in a natural place – I ask them to give all these negative memories to Mother Earth, and feel how they leave their energy field, and how the energy of Earth is recharging them and giving them strength. But more often they have some ‘stream” – rays of light, waterfall, a lake of energy in a Healing Place. If it is a ‘hospital” – we ask for a Spirit Healer to do healing on them – somebody always shows up in a hospital setting.

[Mia Bjork]

@George_Duisman, @Heather_Holm, @Irina_Nola Thank you som much, I am learning so much from your answears ?

[candace durand]

I find that all have life traumas in this life a lot and that is why they are coming to an hypnosis session. They are looking for why they are, the way they are. A lot of times i find that a situation will come out in a session and staying calm and having them float above the situation and let them discribe “what happens next.”
Don’t add your opinion just let them talk about their feelings on what is happening. If Rape, it will be not on the sex but how this came about, what pattern of behavior of the people involved. It may be a pattern of rape or a one time affair. Then I have them talk about it and maybe forgiving this person who committed the act and explain it a pattern in this family and they only know this behavior. I say maybe forgiving them will stop the pattern. They will think about it. Then later talking to their guides the guides will bring up the anger and forgiveness has come, to move on and be more whole in this life. Because why are they bringing this to a new life? They have not learned this lesson. So, the pattern is being repeated for a another chance to learn forgiveness. I can take them to some healing lights ,but the underling unlearned/lesson is still there, Not until they use the information of what they have newly discovered in hypnosis or prayer will they know what to do and live it. Turn the other cheek is a ego lesson, Soul know what is needed. Forgiving ourselves is the biggest thing we need to do. I think we can change the past.

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Candy_Durand said:

I find that all have life traumas in this life a lot and that is why they are coming to an hypnosis session. …

Because why are they bringing this to a new life? They have not learned this lesson. So, the pattern is being repeated for a another chance to learn forgiveness. …

Right on Candy: What I’ve discovered is that healing present life traumas directly is often very difficult. But, when one connects with the key core past-life trauma behind the present day traumas IT’S VERY EASY!!! I’ve had sessions when it took less than ten minutes to connect and completely and permanently eliminate the trauma from the point of view of the key past-life!

[Lilly Espiau]

@Candy_Durand reading your post I can say that it wasn’t hard for me to accept that the man that raped me in a previous life is now my husband. I understand my HS stated he needs to assist me during this life. That he owes me. He will support me for my nurturing and growth. I figure if this decision was made by both parties up there I need to accept it. It took literally minutes to accept. I am not supposed to work. I am supposed to focus on my development and he will give it. I just need to take it. These are the words of HS during my first session. What was I doing when I was raped? Holding a flower basket Lalligaging on a sidewalk. I was an adult skipping consumed in my own world before I was dragged. I’m ok though. I didn’t FEEL trauma. Just blindsided. I take that lesson of not paying attention and too much “lalligaging” wth me now for sure. What else can I do? ??‍♀️

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I find that if you see and feel the full trauma and emotions full on and tap, they will be resolved. With that resolved things will change for the better in amazing ways. I seen a few hundred of old traumas resolved and that is generally what happens.

[Lilly Espiau]

I saw the action but I felt no trauma instead I felt just understanding. I don’t see how I can make myself feel a trauma that I don’t perceive as trauma but rather as just another experience.

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What I’ve seen is that when it’s just another experience it IS healed. I do know that one can avoid the feeling by staying separate, like see it from above, but that is different.